“How to unfuck your life”???

I see a lot of “how to unfuck your life” articles and all I can think of is… it’s all a sham.

90% of the time, it’s people whose lives have probably never been fucked teaching others what to do.

But even before that, how do I know my life is fucked? Who defines that and based on what standards?

What if I want my life to stay “fucked”? Or what if trying to unfuck my life ends up fucking it even more?

What does waking up by 8am every day have to do with unfucking my life? I’m not even a morning person. My most productive hours are usually from 11pm.

Who made these rules on what I need to do to make my life better anyway?

And sometimes it’s not even you that fucked your life up 😭. How to “unfuck” my life and it’s unethical billionaires and corrupt politicians that have fucked it up to this point and plan to make it even worse.

I don’t think it’s rocket science.

To a good extent, I think we know what’s wrong with our own lives and some of the things we could do to get a better outcome from them.

Of course, living a good life and creating something good out of it requires so many different things. Dedication and hard work play a huge role, but some people are blessed, some are gifted, some have the network, some got lucky and some were literally born into an already “unfucked” life.

I hate to be that person, but I would probably never read a piece telling me what to do to “unfuck” my life.

I already know I should read more, work harder, keep learning, unlearning and relearning. I know I need to keep moving and keep evolving.

That doesn’t mean I always know exactly what I’m doing. I obviously don’t. Other people’s experiences and advice can be useful too. I just don’t think anyone has the manual.

Think of it like the gym. Trainers can be incredibly helpful, but even they work from standards they learned from someone, who learned from someone else, who at some point decided that was the standard.

Anyways, moral of my story, I think the only way for me to “unfuck” my life is to first decide what “fucked” even means to me, and then take the actions I think are necessary for the life I want.

Everything else is just input.